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It's Good to be King
By Delia Rimer
Venus Boyz (2002)
d: Gabrielle Baur
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Q: How many feminists does it take to screw in a light
bulb?
A: That's not funny!
--old joke popular among liberal arts students
My friend, Kate was recently molested in public by
a drag king. Although it was part of a public performance,
no one knew it was going to happen. I couldn't help
but feel guilty and even slightly jealous as this display
of PDA was occurring just inches away from my naïve
yet curious eyes. Needless to sayafter such a display
we were all shocked and taken aback. It was events like
these that made me think of the possible reasons the
religious fanatics would have for opposing "the
gay agenda."
Drag queens have always been the center of the drag
world. Let's face it - they're glamorous, fun and certainly
not hard to come by. My firsthand experience with drag
kings is unfortunately limited to theaforementioned
incident. And as open as I (and many others like me)
try to be to kings, we have very little to draw on.
Most of the female cross-dressers in the public eye
(Brandon Teena) tend to don men's clothing more as a
way to feel comfortable, yet without the desire to be
discovered. There isn't anything ostentatious about
the need to feel safe in one's own skin. To see drag
kings take the stage, laughing with the audience at
the man she has created is a new and often uncomfortable
experience as Venus Boyz documents.
The film starts off slow, but it draws us in with the
fascinating myriad of kings and their stories. The film
transforms into an informative, intelligent, poignant
look at the world of drag kings, answering many never-before
asked questions. It's difficult to be critical of a
film that covers a timeless subject, which is still
widely ignored if even discovered. As the people (the
labeling of ones gender varies) reveal their connections
to performing in drag, the line between us and them
all but disappears.
The few noticeable inanimate technical aspects of the
film play a supporting role to the interviewee. The
New York skyline is a constant backdrop in several interviews;
it is almost impossible to ignore the Twin Towers; a
constant reminder of the universal phallus - an obvious,
yet seldom acknowledged part of our society that runs
deep in the blood of the world and especially America.
Perhaps the reason that a lot of these kings are not
as fun as the queens is that their transformation into
the opposite sex is more of a release, a shift of power
and escape from living as the "inferior" gender.
One king commented that women spend their lives trying
to please others; they are expected to be attractive
and nice; if they're loud or abrasive they're called
bitches. Dressing as a man offers an escape. It is a
way to walk in someone else's (much bigger and probably
uglier) shoes, to feel the power as well as laugh at
the absurdity of it.
A few kings who remained in drag after leaving the
stage noticed changes in the way they were treated.
They felt that as "men," they were taken more
seriously and treated more respectfully. I can not help
but feel that this is a central point as to why queens
have more fun, it seems it's easier to take on the role
of someone with lower status knowing that it is just
a performance and moments later your inborn power will
once again take control of your life.
In my few (yet not infrequent) experiences as being
mistaken as male, I too, have felt a sudden burst of
strength and self- importance (even more than usual).
It's thrilling and satisfying, yet I realize it's not
going to last. As good as it feels there is a certain
amount of pain and longing involved. Not what that cock
sucking cigar-smoker Freud would call penis-envy, but
the desire to be treated equally.
One could go on for hours about the topic of transvestitism
and gender roles. Venus Boyz brings some of these questions
and ideas to the forefront in a very candid, yet good-humored
way
that even an ardent self-righteous feminist
like myself can find it heartwarming, entertaining and
above all, funny.
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